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10 Books That Will Make You A Better Person

I’ll be honest: I’ve drafted and deleted this list of books that will make you a better person a dozen times. You probably came here expecting self-help business-guru stuff, or hippie-dippie standards like The Alchemist. The truth is, I don’t have it in me to make a list that earnest. Instead, I want to recommend a handful of books that will make you a better person almost incidentally. You probably won’t find many (any?) of the standards here. But they’ve all had a real impact on me, in big ways and small, so that’s what you’re getting.

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In Order To Live by Yeonmi Park

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In Order To Live is Yeonmi Park’s account of how she escaped North Korea and forged a life for herself far away from everything she had ever known. That’s inspirational and eye-opening on its own, but it’s her final message in the Acknowledgements that could make you a better person. She says: “caring is how we begin to change the world”. Caring about the thousands (tens of thousands? we’ll never know for sure) who have died in their bids for freedom from the North Korean dictatorship is the first step in ensuring that no one else has to suffer in order to live. And then, caring about how many people don’t have access to health care. And then, caring about how many live below the poverty line. And then… Read my full review of In Order To Live here.

The Hate U Give by Angie Thomas

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Have you ever found yourself thinking “they ought to…” about victims of crime? People being abused in their relationships “ought to” leave? Victims of scams “ought to” report? Witnesses to police violence “ought to” speak up? The Hate U Give, a young adult novel by Angie Thomas, might make you rethink what it means to come forward with your story. The main character, Starr Carter, is a Black teenage girl who witnesses a horrific crime at the hands of the police. As she says herself: “I’ve tweeted RIP hashtags, reblogged pictures on Tumblr, and signed every petition out there. I always said that if I saw it happen to somebody, I would have the loudest voice, making sure the world knew what went down. Now I am that person, and I’m too afraid to speak.” Read my full review of The Hate U Give here.

Bruny by Heather Rose

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Okay, I understand if you’re skeptical, seeing an Australian political thriller on a list of books that will make you a better person. Honestly, though, Bruny might be the one that had the most impact on me of all. It’s all for one line, part of Ace Coleman’s backstory, where her father would ask her family every night over the dinner table: “Who did you help today?”. For some reason, that really stuck in my head. I find myself wondering more nights than not, “Who did I help today?”. If the answer is lacking, I feel compelled to do better tomorrow. Maybe you don’t need to read the whole book to benefit from this idea, but why not give it a go anyway? Read my full review of Bruny here.

Why I’m No Longer Talking To White People About Race by Reni Eddo-Lodge

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Ugh, I’m rolling my eyes at myself – of course a white girl would say that Why I’m No Longer Talking To White People About Race is one of the books that will make you a better person. But it will! There are many aspects to Reni Eddo-Lodge’s thesis that will really benefit (especially white) readers, but the one I noticed most immediately after I finished reading it was how it changed the way I consumed historical content (fact or fiction). Her explanation of the way that Black history has been eradicated from the archive hit me like a punch. I directed many people who complained about “accuracy” in the Bridgerton series to read it. There are many reasons to read this book; the fact that it will make you a better person is just one of them. Read my full review of Why I’m No Longer Talking To White People About Race here.

Bad Feminist by Roxane Gay

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If you struggle with self-criticism in the vein of not being a “good enough” feminist (or anti-racist, or ally, or advocate), then Bad Feminist is a no-brainer. This is one of the books that will make you a better person in the sense that it will help you forgive yourself for not being the best person (yet). Roxane Gay opens the essay collection by laying the truth bare: it’s better to be a “bad feminist” than not to be a feminist at all. She is willing to concede her own vulnerabilities, her oversights, and make peace with the fact that she may be wrong or “bad” at upholding her values. It’s not an excuse to stop trying; she’s trying and learning and growing all the time – as are we all. Read my full review of Bad Feminist here.

Eat, Pray, Love by Elizabeth Gilbert

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Alright, yes, as far as books that will make you a better person go, Eat, Pray, Love seems like a bit of a cliche. A privileged white woman takes a huge book advance and uses it to travel the world for a year and “find herself”? What could anyone learn from that? Well, as with most books and authors, there’s more to Liz Gilbert and her memoir when you scratch the surface. The particular wisdom of Eat, Pray, Love that’s stuck with me is how Gilbert overcame her difficulties with prayer at the ashram she visited in India. She began devoting her daily prayer, the one she’d do anything to avoid, to someone she loved. Reframing a dreaded task as an act of devotion is a pretty cool idea, and it’s something I’ve since done with great success myself. Give it a go before you judge!

Good Talk by Mira Jacob

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Hard conversations seem to have become even harder these past few years. As the world’s become scarier and the threats to our health and wellbeing more imminent, those conversations – while difficult to have – have become essential. Good Talk is a graphic novel, a memoir, that will help you have them better. For Mira Jacob, it all began with her son’s innocent line of questioning about Michael Jackson’s appearance and race. This led her to think about – and draw about – a whole bunch of good, but hard, talks she’s had to have throughout her life. Mostly, she focuses on issues of race and colourism, but there are other tough topics to tackle too. Read my full review of Good Talk here.

So You’ve Been Publicly Shamed by Jon Ronson

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On 3 January 2019, @maplecocaine Tweeted: “Each day on twitter there is one main character. The goal is to never be it”. It’s pithy, but it’s true. From Bean Dad, to the Book Murderer, to Shrimp In Cinnamon Toast Crunch, it seems like the daily Twitter pile-on could strike any of us at any time, with apparently no notice. Jon Ronson, like all good journalist/authors, tracked this phenomenon with interest – but he also took it one step further and started looking what happened to Twitter’s main characters after the storm had passed. The most iconic is, of course, Justine (back in the early days of Twitter, her poor-taste joke about AIDS in Africa caught worldwide attention), also the subject of Ronson’s TED Talk. This book will make you a better person, if only because it will make you think twice before quote-tweeting.

The Immortal Life Of Henrietta Lacks by Rebecca Skloot

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When you last had a headache, did you reach for the Advil? Or an antacid when your belly was burning? A contraceptive pill when your daily reminder went off? How many times a day do we reach for medical interventions without really thinking about where they came from, and the sacrifices of those upon whom they were tested? That’s one of the (many) reasons that The Immortal Life Of Henrietta Lacks is one of the books that will make you a better person. It will open your eyes to the harsh realities of 20th century medical advancements, and how often the most vulnerable people in our community have been exploited so that we might benefit from better health. It’s both a lesson in gratitude, and a reminder to prioritise ethical decision-making. Read my full review of The Immortal Life Of Henrietta Lacks here.

She Come By It Natural by Sarah Smarsh

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Put simply, the world would be a better place if we were all a bit more like Dolly Parton. Instead of using her millions to launch into space while her employees pee in bottles, she has donated over 133 million books to children through her Imagination Library and created thousands of jobs (with incredible benefits) in her home state. You can learn more about our blonde country guardian angel, a true testament to the best of humanity, in She Come By It Natural. From Dolly’s hard-knock Tennessee roots to packed stadium shows and unrivaled cultural cut-through, this book will inspire you to be a better person – someone Dolly would be proud of. Read my full review of She Come By It Natural here.

4 Comments

  1. When I saw the title of your post I could feel the eyes start rolling in anticipation of a list of self help manuals, the kind that contain just enough useful info to fit onto a drinks coaster.
    But you’ve confounded me!
    You made me stop and think Who Did I Help Today. Turned out that it doesn’t need to be a massive act of self-sacrifice, it can be something small like answering a friend’s question about how to cook blueberry muffins!

    • Sheree

      July 9, 2022 at 10:01 AM

      YES! That’s EXACTLY the reaction I was hoping for! 😍 So, there you go, you’ve helped me today, too!

  2. Lyra Silvertongue

    July 20, 2022 at 5:07 PM

    Wow, thank you for this. These are self-care and self-improvement books I do actually need. I have added ‘Bad Feminist’ as the first book on my TBR. I relate so much to what you’ve written. I do want to help do good and you know, actually be a social activist, instead of saying I am one. My self-loathing is magnified because I don’t have social media and am unlikely to have anything in the future other than a Pinterest board. How can I spread awareness without social media? As silly as that sounds, social media seems so ingrained in everyday life.
    The other suggestions are also interesting. I will look into them – if I ever get the time to read!
    Stay safe.

    • Sheree

      August 15, 2022 at 12:02 PM

      Oh Lyra – I’m glad to hear that these books are piquing your interest, and I hope they speak to you the way they did to me. As to activism without social media – let me reassure you that there are PLENTY of ways to further causes without using an online platform. There are representatives to contact via phone or email, petitions to sign, protests to go to, revolutions to feed, worthy causes to fund… the list goes on. You will find a way to make your voice heard, I’m sure of it ❤️ Keep fighting!

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